Bad News and Good News.
Bad news: You’ll see a lot of the back of that baby’s head. Breastfed
Good news: Since the new mother will spend so much time nursing at first, your
Bad news: If your own children weren’t breastfed, you may find yourself wondering how to advise the mother in this strange new parenting style. You may see her doing things that you were told were unwise, or even unsafe, like nursing the baby without clock-watching, or sleeping with the baby. Things that we now know are good for babies. We’ve learned a lot in the years since your children were born.
Good news: She may be eager to share her growing experience with you. Ask to look at her books, or go with her to a La Leche League meeting. Some of the things you discover may feel surprisingly right to
Bad news: You may not have a chance to offer a bottle or cereal. Nursing mothers usually wait at least a month to offer a bottle, or may never use one, and wait for solids until about 6 months, when the baby can sit and feed himself.
Good news: This little one will probably sleep less than yours did, and will
Bad news: Well, there really isn’t any more bad news.
Good news: This will be a baby to brag about. Breastfed babies tend to be smart, walk early, stay healthy, feel solid, and look rosy. And even if your grandchild seems clingy at first, in time that clinginess will blossom into a secure sense of independence. This will be a child who loves going to Grandma’s house! But right now, he doesn’t need your help and support. His mother does. By encouraging her to enjoy her new role and helping her find the
Now what could be better news than that?
©2000 Diane Wiessinger, MS, IBCLC www.normalfed.com